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While it is up to the individual, I am not the type that "hides". I am open and communicative. What you see is what you get. I am also the type of person who expresses how she feels. It would have been impossible (for me at least) to hide it from my family, especially my mother. My mother had a dream the very same weekend I went to the nudist resort for the first time (without my telling her). She said she saw me naked in the driveway. I had to laugh. I certainly couldnt hide anything from her. My mother also made me promise not to tell my brothers, but i did anyway. One was horrified, but he got over it. I think my mother thought if I told my brothers it would wear off on them.

In the late 90's, I found out through a family friend (that I confided in) that my aunt and uncle (my dad's sister), were nudists. My aunt and uncle had already passed away by then. I was surprised. Apparently, it was a big secret in their family too. I was swarn to secrecy by my mother not to tell our relatives that I was a nudist, so I didn't. Later I found out that my parents KNEW my aunt and uncle were nudists.

Help! I can't get my wife or girlfriend to come with me to a nudist club.

The primary reason women don't want to attend a nudist environment is because they are embarrassed by their bodies; although men have their issues too.  I want  women to know how safe and comfortable this lifestyle can be-especially if you belong to a  club like I do. NOONE HAS A PERFECT BODY. Here at Caliente Clothing Optional Resort, I recommend if you are a first time visitor whose significant others has doubts, bring her to the club for dinner and dancing. She will see men and women in various stages of dress or "undress", and she will not feel out of place wearing clothes.

Help! I'm a guy. Will I get an erection?

This is a fear that many men have before going to a nudist resort. They are afraid of losing control and having sexual desires. Everyone is the same in a nudist resort.  True nudism, contrary to what many people think, has nothing to do with sex and swinging. There is no sexual touching permitted, and you almost NEVER see a man with an erection. It is rare, but if by some off chance that it happens, he wraps himself in a towel or jumps in the pool. There are people of all different sizes, women with mastectomies and people in wheelchairs.

What do i need to bring with me for my first time at a nudist club?

You will need your driver's license and a picture ID. For sanitary reasons, ALWAYS bring a towel to sit on. DO NOT rudely stare at women's breasts and private areas and men's genitals. It is considered rude and may warrent a complaint that results you being thrown out of the club..

What are the entrance requirements to a nudist or clothing optional resort.

Each nudist club is different. Some have stricter entrance and member policies then others. For instance at Glen Eden Sun Club where I used to belong, they required single men to provide proof of divorce. It has been almost 7 years since I was a member there, so it could have changed; however I doubt it. Some clubs require references, a current member in good standing to sponsor you, committee approval and most definitely criminal background checks. I feel incredible safe at any nudist or clothing optional resort, because I know that they watch out for their female members and children. New men (especially single men) are watched to see how they act and if they get too familiar with children.   

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